1 September 2008 tarikh yang bermakna buat aku dan LK sebab ni hari pertama kitorang berpuasa bersama sebagai LK dan LP. Alhamdullilah...Selalunya aku akan berbuka hari first dengan mama dan papa. Tapi this year LK cakap kita buka hari pertama berdua dulu di rumah kita sebagai famili. Sebab its a memontus day for both of us, so spend it together in OUR house with MY cooking. Ok, apa aku masak? LK dah cakap awal-awal jangan masak banyak sangat. So, aku try to keep it sederhana tapi meriah...hehehhehe...Sepanjang hari tu LK macam pancit sikit aku tengok sebab dia TAK SMOKING LANGSUNG. Aku harap sangat dia quit smoking sebab skang ni pun rokok dah naik sampai rm0.60 sekotak (Cayang Pak Lah!). So, di sebabkan tak smoking gitu, dia sudah macam pening-pening lalat skit....stay strong LK!! U can do it LK!! Every 10 minutes aku akan tanya dia "Are ok?" "How u holding on?" "Sabar yer...think about the 10 years old kid...diorang puasa rileks jer"
The thing is, LK is a convert. Being a wife of a convert, it is my tangungjawab mutlak that i HAVE to ENSURE that LK instil this one rukun Islam properly towards the completion of all the 5 others, insyaAllah. I am happy with his fulfillement of the other rukun but i really really hope and pray always that he can sweetly surrender himself to Allah's rules in total to be a good Muslim and thus a becoming a good leader in our house. Amin...
Additionally, married to a convert myself, i have to always always always REMEMBER and UNDERSTAND that being a convert, its not easy to perform all the rukun-rukun islam immediately. Kena slow-slow dan banyak doa. They are not born muslim macam aku. Yang sejak kecil lagi mak dah ajar sembahyang, puasa, ngaji quran. We have to treat them like they are kids. Kena ajar slowly dan patiently. Macam kita ajar budak...macam tu la actually cara nak ajar convert. At the same time ajar diri kita jugak. And believe me, A LOT of questions (basic question) yang converts ni akan tanya yang most of the times akan buat kita terpaku sebab tatau nak jawab apa. Thats why kita kena SENTIASA equip kan diri dengan ilmu-ilmu ni. One time dulu LK penah tanya aku, apa maksud bacaan tahiyat? Memang terkedu aku tak terjawab sebab aku memang tak tau. Sebab kan aku tatau jawab, LK slam aku balik cakap yang aku tak sepatutnya tak tau apa yang aku baca dalam sembahyang. Which is correct. I should have known what i say to Allah each time during prayer. Selama ni aku baca membuta ajer tanpa tau maksud bacaan tahiyat. Not good. So, this Ramadhan aku berazam akan bersama sama dengan LK belajar maksud bacaan tahiyat. Actually, being with convert so far, thought me a lot about life. About Islam jugak. Aspect yang aku tak penah nampak dan terfikir, aku nampak dan terfikir bila aku ngan LK. Tambahan LK ni Libra, being a very very curios minded person...tau tau je la...questions and questions and more questions..which is good because i tend to learn new things each and every day from him as well. Aku yakin aku dah tau sebab kenapa Allah tentukan jodoh aku ngan LK....
The thing is, LK is a convert. Being a wife of a convert, it is my tangungjawab mutlak that i HAVE to ENSURE that LK instil this one rukun Islam properly towards the completion of all the 5 others, insyaAllah. I am happy with his fulfillement of the other rukun but i really really hope and pray always that he can sweetly surrender himself to Allah's rules in total to be a good Muslim and thus a becoming a good leader in our house. Amin...
Additionally, married to a convert myself, i have to always always always REMEMBER and UNDERSTAND that being a convert, its not easy to perform all the rukun-rukun islam immediately. Kena slow-slow dan banyak doa. They are not born muslim macam aku. Yang sejak kecil lagi mak dah ajar sembahyang, puasa, ngaji quran. We have to treat them like they are kids. Kena ajar slowly dan patiently. Macam kita ajar budak...macam tu la actually cara nak ajar convert. At the same time ajar diri kita jugak. And believe me, A LOT of questions (basic question) yang converts ni akan tanya yang most of the times akan buat kita terpaku sebab tatau nak jawab apa. Thats why kita kena SENTIASA equip kan diri dengan ilmu-ilmu ni. One time dulu LK penah tanya aku, apa maksud bacaan tahiyat? Memang terkedu aku tak terjawab sebab aku memang tak tau. Sebab kan aku tatau jawab, LK slam aku balik cakap yang aku tak sepatutnya tak tau apa yang aku baca dalam sembahyang. Which is correct. I should have known what i say to Allah each time during prayer. Selama ni aku baca membuta ajer tanpa tau maksud bacaan tahiyat. Not good. So, this Ramadhan aku berazam akan bersama sama dengan LK belajar maksud bacaan tahiyat. Actually, being with convert so far, thought me a lot about life. About Islam jugak. Aspect yang aku tak penah nampak dan terfikir, aku nampak dan terfikir bila aku ngan LK. Tambahan LK ni Libra, being a very very curios minded person...tau tau je la...questions and questions and more questions..which is good because i tend to learn new things each and every day from him as well. Aku yakin aku dah tau sebab kenapa Allah tentukan jodoh aku ngan LK....
Pasar Dato Keramat hujan lebat waktu kitorang nak gi beli kuih juadah...lencun sampai rosak selipar aku...huhuhu...
LK watching tv whilst waiting for Maghrib...
First buka puasa meal. Atas permintaan ramai, kari ayam....hehehhehe...ikan goreng, cauliflower + carrot goreng oyster. Kuih dari Aman (beli kuih situ je yang sedap) karipap, bijan kelapa dan kacang kole. Murtabak dari Suberi...sodapp.....
LK sebelum ke Terawih..aku sangat terkilan tak dapat pegi sebab dah uzur...huhuhuh....takpe...next week kita masjid hopping for terawih ok LK?
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